If you really want to be happy everyday,you need to have a thankful attitude to God everyday.This means living out each day as a series of situations in which you have an opportunity to please God.One of the ways you can do this is to become a true disciple of Christ in your everyday life,not just on Sundays.
One of the ways you can do this is to pray often and read about God often.Doing these two things regularly will help you live in the presence of God in the different situations of daily to life.According to St. Isidore of Seville, “When we pray,we talk to God;when we read(the word of God),God talks to us.” This will help us think of God more regularly.Thinking of God all the time will help you to think less about yourself even in difficult and annoying situations and do the right thing more often.
If you do right thing you will be happy.If you do the right thing everyday you will be happy everyday.If you want to help yourself happy everyday you have to pause in each situation and ask for God’s help and the grace to carry out his will for you in that situation.
The problem is that because our emotions dominate our daily lives, we do not have the mind to rely on God. Instead we rely on our own judgement in the different situations. This leads us to act out of impatience,suspicion,anger,envy,frustration or jealousy.
These are all signs and symptoms of our weaknesses as human beings.If you want to make yourself happy everyday you have remember that God knows you are weak.Do not get mad or embarrassed by your mistakes or failure.Admit your imperfections and confess your sins to God prayerfully everyday.
Remember that you are an imperfect person serving a perfect but loving God.God knows that the spirit is willing but the body is weak.
In order to happy everyday we have to be willing to forgive ourselves even when we make mistakes or fall into temptation.One simple way to actually forgive ourselves and others everyday is to stop complaining.
The problem with complaining is that when you point one finger at someone,the other four fingers are pointing at you.Don’t waste time complaining.Concentrate instead on finding ways to improve your situation through prayer and action and you will find yourself being happier everyday,
Say “Thank you Jesus”, everyday and you will be happy.